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6月9日 What if the euphoric "in-love" feeling dissipates...I got the book from Beth, who I used to live with, and the time I spent with her is one of the happiest times in my life.
When I moved out, she gave me too books.
She juz like my mum in Australia. She knows these books will help me.
And now I want to share some of the great words with you.
"You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments that you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love." - Henry Drummond
"If we are going to love people, we have to keep our hearts open. Most of us, at one time or another, have experienced betrayal. we have been let down by people, and we have probally been hurt. If we are not careful, we will let bitterness settle in our hearts and shut them down. We could grown into angry, twisted, asd, old women if we let bitterness live in our hearts."
"... enphoric, dreamlike, in-love feeling. This kind of love is the cloudy, floaty feeling that has no basis in reality! While you are in this state, you are incredibly altruistic. You will do whatever your boyfriend/girlfried wants to do... takes long walks on the beach or in the part... meets all three hundred members of the family... He is happy just to hold you..."
"During this phase of love, you can't think of one thing wrong with your boyfriend/girlfriend. You see only the good, and you ignore any warning that friends or family might bring up. The problem with this kind of love is that it is not the everlasting kind... it generally lasts two years or so, and ... It is at this time as the euphoric "in-love" feelong dissipates that many couples will say, I'm just not in love anymore, and I want out."
"We have all had those feelings sometimes. Don't get discouraged about your relationship if you have - or have had - those feelings. You just now have the opportunity to build the love that will last a lifetime, and it is not determined by what you feel as much as by what you do. Real love is not a place you fall into; it is not a feeling; it is what you do... sometimes in spite of what you are feeling."
"I love my husband more now, after eighteen years of marriage. And there was a time in the beginning of our marriage when that euphoric, fluffy, in-love phase left, and I just didn't feel any love toward him. There was a time when i wanted out of this marriage... because he just wasn't making me happy. He was no longer a prince or charming, and I was ready to throw the shoe at him! But instead of leaving, I made the decision to work on our marriage... I got some help. Together, Phillip and I learned to build the love that we know will see us through the end of our lives... Sometimes I look back at what I almost gave up and shudder to think of the love I almost threw away...the real kind of love"
If the feelings aren't there right now... It doesn't matter, you know, feelings will follow if you do loving things...
You will realise something at some stage.
We will work out all the problems:) |
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